The point of going on a date is not to get your own way; I go on dates and spend money and buy them drinks and never see them again.’She continued: ‘You dont go on a date because youre going to meet your boyfriend or girlfriend, youre going to meet someone interesting and if you fancy them, that’s a bonus. But I will say that I am more likely to insist on paying my share if I’ve already concluded that I won’t be seeing him again.
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The 28-year-old, who describes herself as a romantic, met the man for a coffee.
She said: “I did not want to get into a row at first but then when he was rude in his reply I thought I’m going to show people the messages because he obviously doesn’t understand how dating works”. Because he wasn’t drinking, he asked if he could take her to the Costa Coffee. I don’t like wasting money.
‘Like seriously? I put on eyeliner for this and now I’m in a Costa b****y Coffee, ‘ she wrote.
After 25 minutes of conversation he suggested they go to his place and he would cook her dinner as he has an Ocado delivery coming.
She declined explaining she wouldn’t feel comfortable going to a stranger’s house, so he left to catch his delivery service, just 32 minutes after meeting her.
In turn she proposed to give the money to charity but the man insisted she pay him directly. I get annoyed when I hear about women who don’t offer to pay. I don’t come with a money back guarantee. Prefer to use it on a date with someone else’.
You can check out her post in full here.
‘I actually felt angry, because as you’ll know if you read this blog often, I am a massively big believer in women always offering to pay for dates.
When Lauren politely refused the invitation, citing a lack of chemistry she was issued a refund demand for the £3.50 coffee.
The moment her date asked for a refund.
She added: ‘I wish it was fake, dating sucks!’
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But her first attempt ended in pretty epic fashion.
