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October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Victims share their stories with Wanda and they are both heartbreaking and eye-opening. However millions of men are affected by domestic violence, too. They are one of 9 domestic violence resource centers in the state of Maine.

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No one should have to endure the abuse that can happen anywhere to anybody behind closed doors.

The death of Lisa Infante, allegedly shot and killed by her estranged husband in the home she shared with the two youngest of the couple’s four children, was a stark and devastatingly permanent reminder that this kind of violence happens to our neighbors, friends, co-workers, relatives and colleagues. The YWCA has a shelter with 17 beds, but because of demand, it has to turn away more than 1,500 women a year, Frey said.

That provision was meant to protect victims from having their identities revealed publicly.

Is there any truth to this?

The eighth annual Domestic Violence Awareness Walk takes place on Saturday, October 17, at 11 a.m. beginning at the Edgartown Park and Ride, off Edgartown-Vineyard Haven Road. “She would tell us, ‘I remember these are the signs we were supposed to watch for, ‘ and she’d break off the relationship”. Stress that domestic violence tends to get worse. His proof? Video from a Go Pro camera he was wearing that allegedly showed his wife physically assaulting him in front of their children.

Gray said she has introduced into the 50 recommendations that the Governor’s task force has made a dating violence provision that extends CDV protection laws to people who are not in a formal relationship, but are dating. The wife in this matter has been charged and is now in jail. Carefully document any cuts, bruises or other injuries, taking photos whenever possible and seeking medical care as needed. The pledge is a promise not to hurt others with their words or hands.

And there’s a way for each of us to take a stand and say, “No more”.

In addition to funding issues, the group also talked with Bush about how the recent heroin epidemic has complicated domestic violence cases. For a sense of the scale, consider that a year ago 46,750 people sought help from the 18-member organizations in the Connecticut Coalition Against Domestic Violence. What’s in a name?

According to the No More website, an engaged bystander is someone who intervenes when he or she sees or hears behaviors that promote, condone or encourage domestic or sexual violence.

“Child abuse, domestic violence, often they’re viewed as very distinctly different problems”.

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Domestic violence is not a private issue. The No More campaign encourages community members to be engaged bystanders to end domestic violence and sexual assault.

Domestic violence concerns us all